Display data in a Table

Goal:
Display the data of xml in a customized table.

The requested table list will be:

user         firstname     lastname     hour    projectname      sex-------------------------------------------------------------------------
userTime     sara          brown        20nullnull
userProject  jessica       black        nullMelissanull
userProject  Jim           west         nullSakuranull
userSex      robert        lake         nullnull             male

etc....

Problem:
In the hiearchy I have three different level that is <userTime>, <userProject> and <userSex>

that are subset of and I want them and other column to display in the customized table with the chronological order that is similiar to the xml data.

Information:
*The data for userTime, userProject and userSex in the XML is random
*The list in the XML is huge.

DECLARE @xml XML
 SET @xml =
 (
         SELECT * FROM OPENROWSET
         (
                 BULK 'C:\server\xml\test.xml', SINGLE_CLOB
         ) AS xmlData
 )

 SELECT
         firstname = Events.value('(firstname)[1]', 'VARCHAR(100)'),
         lastname = Events.value('(lastname)[1]', 'VARCHAR(100)'),
         hour = Events.value('(hour)[1]', 'VARCHAR(100)')                                                                            
 FROM @XML.nodes('/users/userTime') as XTbl(Events)

<users><userTime><firstname>sara</firstname><lastname>brown</lastname><hour>20</hour></userTime><userProject><firstname>jessica</firstname><lastname>black</lastname><projectname>Melissa</projectname></userProject><userProject><firstname>Jim</firstname><lastname>west</lastname><projectname>Sakura</projectname></userProject><userSex><firstname>robert</firstname><lastname>lake</lastname><sex>male</sex></userSex><userTime><firstname>Britany</firstname><lastname>lake</lastname><hour>20</hour></userTime><userTime><firstname>sara</firstname><lastname>brown</lastname><hour>20</hour></userTime></users>